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The Calm & Joyful Holiday Series: Setting Boundaries for Holiday Calm

The Calm & Joyful Holiday Series: Setting Boundaries for Holiday Calm

Trimming the tree with your kids. Hosting family for dinner. Clinking glasses with friends. A full social calendar marks the arrival of the holiday season. While these events symbolize times of community, love and laughter, they can also herald stress—an unwelcome guest in your home and heart during the holidays.

This season, it’s time to protect your peace by setting compassionate boundaries. We know boundaries aren’t always easy, so here are our three steps to becoming well-practiced in boundaries so you can enjoy the holidays this year—because that’s really what they’re all about. Joy.


Know When to Say Yes—and When to Say No

Before RSVPing to every invitation, ask yourself: Does this event align with my energy, values, and priorities? A late night with good food and company might be worth it—but sacrificing your well-being to avoid disappointing others isn’t. Every yes to others should also feel like a yes to yourself.

 

How to Prioritize Your Energy

  • Assess Each Invitation: Ask yourself, “Am I willing to sacrifice my time, money, or energy for this event?” If the answer is yes, great! If not, it’s okay to say no.
  • Avoid People-Pleasing: Reflect on why you’re saying yes. If it’s to avoid disappointing someone else, consider whether you’re compromising your own needs in the process.
  • Reflect: Ask yourself: Which events truly bring me joy, and which feel like obligations? Align your yeses with what energizes you, not what drains you.

    Communicate Boundaries with Confidence

    Clear communication is the foundation of strong boundaries. Saying no early prevents last-minute stress and guilt while giving others time to adjust. Expressing your needs with kindness shows you value your relationships—and yourself.

     

    How to Communicate Effectively

    • Say No Graciously: A polite decline can be as simple as, “Thank you for the invite! I can’t attend, but I hope it’s a wonderful event.” No explanation needed.
    • Use “I” Statements: Express your needs respectfully, like, “I need to limit my social gatherings this season so I don’t burn out like last year.”
    • Offer Alternatives: Suggest another way to connect if you can’t make a specific event. For example, “I can’t attend your holiday party, but I’d love to meet for coffee soon.”
    • Stay Firm: Once you’ve made a decision, stick with it. Consistency helps reinforce your boundaries and protects your well-being.

    Recharge with Restorative Self-Care

    Whether you’re navigating social events or learning to say no, recharging is essential for maintaining your energy and calm. A self-care ritual tailored to the holiday season can help you feel grounded and balanced.

     

    How to Rest and Recharge

    • Mindful Decompression: After a gathering, take 5-10 minutes to reset with meditation or breathwork. Light our Evening Aromatherapy Candle to create a grounding atmosphere with its soothing notes of Palo Santo and Cedarwood. These small rituals can clear your mind and refresh your energy.
    • Create a Calming Evening Ritual: Swap your nightly body lotion for our Evening Body Serum. The blend of essential oils was formulated by an award-winning Clinical Aromatherapist to lessen stress and deepen sleep—perfect for regulating your nervous system during a busy holiday season.
    • Explore Other Practices: Recharge with a walk in nature, a warm bath, journaling your thoughts, or a simple cup of tea by the fire. Small, intentional moments make a big difference.
    • Quick Reset During the Day: Feeling overwhelmed? Step outside for a breath of fresh air. Even a brief pause can help you regain focus and energy.

    Boundaries Are the Foundation of Joy

    Setting boundaries isn’t just about surviving the holiday season—it’s about thriving in your life. By prioritizing your mental health and well-being through mindful energy management, clear communication, and nurturing self-care, you can transform your holiday experience from stressful to peaceful.


    Looking Ahead

    Ready for more ways to reclaim your calm this holiday season? Don’t miss the next article in The Calm & Joyful Holiday Series, where we’ll share simple self-care practices to help you stay grounded and energized throughout the busiest time of year. Subscribe to our newsletter below to ensure you don’t miss it!

     

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